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Matt Stine's avatar

The boundary I’ve really been trying to establish and live by is this: it’s not my responsibility to make anyone comfortable with my body or my taking up space. It’s a hard one for somebody that literally apologizes at the drop of a hat for nothing. I love the values exercise. Especially the stickers. 💜

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Ivy Zeller's avatar

Thank you! And cheers to boundaries and not apologizing by default!

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Chuck Petch's avatar

Thanks for reminding us about boundaries for self protection, Kandi. I have been learning to recognize and listen to that inner discomfort (anxiety or anger) when my boundaries are crossed. I didn't used to recognize those signs and didn't know why certain people made me uncomfortable. Now I do and can communicate my boundaries. Feels a lot better!

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Ivy Zeller's avatar

Thank you, Chuck! I love this journey for you!

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Chuck Petch's avatar

Thank you! I really enjoyed your artwork and how you turned knowing your values into something creative. I share almost all of those values.

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